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Parents how to develop children's EQ education

Positive thinking is formed in the tip, spend some time and effort as long as usual, parents can help children develop a positive habit of positive thinking.
Help the child build self-confidence.
Confidence is the cornerstone of emotional intelligence ability. Confident children, in the face of malicious attacks can be composed with the others, and has a good resistance to frustration and pressure, in relationships will be handy.
Evaluation of the parents on the child, has a direct impact on their confidence, therefore, if often only criticism and praise, parents can unconsciously, shape a child with poor self image. It is recommended that parents can sit down and write children worthy of merit. And in this would like to remind parents that these advantages should not be the result of children and others, but the child his own qualities.
For example, a very loving, is kind to small animals; very polite, will take the initiative and say hello to a friend, and so on. These personality traits, not. Top each built upon the comparison results. If you want to praise your child's academic performance, very serious and responsible, will urge reading itself is a better reason. Encouraged and kid, he has the right kind of confidence in himself, let his emotion quotient ability greatly.
Foster interpersonal interaction skills.
Now children are only children, so parents should be more a chance to welcome playmates of the children to the home and the children play together and learn, as well as spend important moments in life (such as birthdays). Value EQ's parents when children participate in the activities of these groups, the focus of attention will not be children compare results with others, parents this observation is that children in interactions with others, he is actively talking to others? Still shy and not opening? When someone spoke to him when he reacted? In case of conflict with another person, how did he respond? In order to prevent their falling into the mindset to fight with others, parents may wish to prepare a small notebook, remind yourself the focus of observation and recording.
In addition, children should be encouraged to share, also encourage your child to take the initiative to help others, this is a very important trait in teamwork. Parents should encourage their children to watch more of other people's needs, and offer to help. May wish to ask the children: have you noticed who has special needs help? Do you think you could do something to help others? And when children provides assistance, such as help family with something, that giving timely praise immediately, so that children can foster team spirit and collaboration capabilities. Future work or life, would be useful.
Promoting positive attitudes among children.
Psychology research found that as long as children took a positive view, to have a positive attitude, that parents can rest assured that the children won't be so happy in my life so far.
To know how to do positive thinking about things. One child, a history teacher criticized his performance. Most children will feel the loss of face and heart. He made attitude adjustments, however, smiled and said to her mother: Fortunately, the teacher is my worst subject, and if my best subject in his criticism, that I was not even worse. Such positive thinking, is optimistic about the wonderful qualities to show. Because he knew how to see the advantage in any environment, so as to avoid undue interference with negative emotions, and find inspiration motivation.
In order to help children learn to see the benefits side of things, the parents should always inspire children think is to ask, such as meet the new students today, what do you think he has the advantage?
Encounter setbacks, for example child performance is unsatisfactory, parents should not say: you going on today, is a terrible mess. Use: this may have let you down, do you think that there are no positive part? As a result, children have the ability to think positive answer, such as compared to last time is also slightly advances, or learned important lessons, more prepared to do next on stage.
Helping children develop emotional management skills.
In the United States some primary and secondary schools, joined in the course of meditation practice, let the children sit down, close your eyes, focused his intentions and sit for 20 minutes. A recent experiment found that meditation can help reduce a person's anxiety, and can enhance concentration, further enhancing the efficiency of learning. Properly designed, appropriate relaxation techniques, early learning, for their resilience will help.
Parents can encourage their children to develop healthy interests and hobbies, and to help them deal with stress, such as exercise with your kids, painting, singing, etc. Psychological research shows that exercise is one of excellent steam pressure, doing aerobic exercise for at least 20 minutes, will promote the secretion of the mesencephalon of the brain of endorphins, and thus play a role in relieving stress on the physiological.
Help children identify their emotions.
One child came home from school to tell you: today at school my classmates hit me!
His father skillfully replied: all right? Who hit you, so you're wrong?
This answer will not only help children identify their emotional state, but also brings two big advantages. First of all, children can get to know, then have to deal with, are their emotions, rather than the other. So, it's really the right thing to do, not because of themselves feel wronged, find the other theory, but should be aware that real trouble is his emotional reaction, then the effort is how to debug mood, make appropriate responses.
Second, the child's ability to learn empathy. The beaten, miserable, you'll know, if going to play someone else, people will feel like this. The profound emotional experience and ability to help raise children empathy. So from the perspective of EQ, which is a practice of two birds with one stone.
Help the child identify emotions, the next, MOM and Dad can ask: do you want to tell me what happened? This is a very important means of communication, as parents learn to ask questions and listen, kids will want to speak, cultivate a habit of parent-child communication, and will allow each other to communicate unimpeded.
As long as children took a positive view, to have a positive attitude, that parents can rest assured that the children won't be so happy in my life so far. BACK